I was walking on the beach with Des and talking about my new tagline BE YOU, GET WEALTHY and I said if people don’t like it that’s too bad!
Des said:
“Why are you calling in negativity?
What if you said ‘AND People will love it!’?
Would that attract the people who love it?
Not the people who will judge you or think less of you?”
Oops! A good reminder for this Abundance Queen and Law of Attraction expert 🙂
A good teacher, is what I am.
At times like this, Des says “You taught me all this.”
So here’s what I got from that exchange, stepping into our true self doesn’t have to be something to fear, something to fret about.
Who knows, there will probably be plenty of people who love to see what we are doing, people who will be inspired to take similar action in their own lives.
That’s the ripple effect.
And in that way, when we step into our true self we’ll be thinking such positive thoughts we won’t have the bandwidth to think about the people who mightn’t like it.
Just think about the good that we are doing, and how by what we are doing we are changing people’s lives.
Inspiring them to become totally true to themselves.
“If the trumpet does not sound a clear call, who will get ready for battle?” ~ 1 Corinthians 14:8
Be strong in taking your stand for who you are.
Don’t give negativity any unnecessary attention.
I am so good at helping other people shift their language, I sometimes forget about my own.
I help others make the shift from fear to love, from negativity to positivity.
And yet I slip up.
We are all human, and as the saying goes, “the plumbers house always leaks”.
Do you experience this disconnect, this lack of congruence, in your life, your family, your business?
Then welcome to the human race! 🙂
It’s not something to get stressed about, or beat ourselves up.
But we can always improve.
And the best way to improve is to focus more intently on the positive.
And I’m thinking, what other ways can we turn that negativity impulse around?
Maybe by making it a game?
Any suggestions? Ideas?
Well I am now off to do the Magic Footsteps exercise from the book The Magic.
Then my beach gratitude rant
This is something that always raises my vibes
Are you ready to Be You and Get Wealthy in all areas of your life?
Share in the comments
With love and abundance
Suzie xxx
Love Yourself Into Abundance
Being true to our greatest self will turn out to be the most amazing thing we can do in the end Suzie. That’s my belief. I love your new tagline and this article. 🙂
It’s really good to catch ourselves when we tend to look at the negative instead of positive possibilities. I’m all for being realistic at the same time. Some people won’t like the new tagline and that’s okay. Everyone has different interest and needs.
I know Sandra and sometimes I think I can be too realistic and that’s when for me negativity can set in. Yes it is okay and how boring life would be if we all di like the same ways to be do and think 🙂 xx
Wonderful example, Suzie. Sometimes, I also “forget” to consciously choose my perspective. It’s uncanny how easy it is to slip back into negative, defeating thinking patterns. When a wise friend reminds me to see it another way or I reframe, I’m like “Oh yeah!” Glad you have your Des. I love it that he says “You taught me all of this.” 🙂
Yes Debbie so glad I do have Des to remind me. 🙂 It is amazing how easy it is to slip back and forget what we teach others xx
Suzie, while I highly appreciate what Des said, and am so glad you have someone who is right there to remind you to stay positive, you’re only human. Although we try not to focus on what others think, from time to time we’re going to find ourselves thinking along that line. Recently, in my Group Coaching Program, when we got to the Module on mindset around money, I found myself changing from Wealth Mindset to Abundance Mindset.
Nothing essentially wrong, however, I made the change knowing that some persons have a negative attitude towards wealth but connect more easily with the term abundance. Great new tagline. Love how you’re always making adjustments for the greater good.
Yvonne Understand what you are saying about wealth, I then think of wealth as being all encompassing and alway our health is our wealth which is such a huge focus of my life and business, you have sparked my Monday question on my page 🙂
Love your new tag line. Great wealth comes when we live our lives authentically. But, what I really love is your sense of humor and storytelling gifts! This is a wonderful post with an important (and timely) message. Thank you.
Cindy you made my heart sing, especially as you love the tagline Great wealth comes when we live our lives authentically – going to add this to my post Thank you for your compliments and so happy it was timely for you xxoo
I believe in the Ripple Effect and stating what we wish to manifest in positive mental and voiced language, too. Thanks for reminding us. Great blog.
Yes I love the ripple effect and how it empowers so many. thank you xxoo
Thanks so much Suzie for this lovely reminder to be gentle with ourselves and to have people in our lives who support us and encourage our growth.
Thank you Trilby I am so happy that this spoke to you xxoo
Hi Suzie~ I love how Des is always there to reflect back to you what is in your heart! I think it is amazing to observe the relationship you share and the support of each other’s growth you provide! I think I will check out “The Magic” as I’ve not heard about it until now! xoxo
Hi Krystal, Yes I am so blessed to have Des , such a strong relationship and bond we have. Yes The magic is amazing- I have just completed the whole book on youtube- day by day https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLYWcueyeEgo4dfs0iGE_8d9GYIIBfIgxV It is a powerful exercise. xxoo
The thoughts we think and the words we speak absolutely do create our reality!
love your wisdom Barb xxoo
Great take-away points from your conversation with Des. The family of fear will happily inhabit our minds if we invite them in. It’s important to change our language as you suggest Suzie. It takes time but if we affirm people will love what we have to offer – we put ourselves in a much more positive mindset to move forward. xx2
Thank you Debra, yes so blessed that Des is on my case. He always remind me that I taught him all of what he reminds me of. Yes I agree once we do affirm we can move past fear and do the mindset shift too xxoo
As someone who teaches authenticity and vulnerability in your marketing, I LOVE THIS BLOG POST! Thank you for giving your readers (including me) permission to be ourselves. I also love gratitude practices – so helpful for the right mindset. xoxo
HI Jill, delights me that my post spoke to you and you loved it . Yes sometimes we need permission to be true to ourselves.The gratitude practice does shift ones mindset too xxoo
I lov the caption, it says it all. Being yourself isn’t the best option. Thanks for sharing Suzie.
My pleasure Leila love it spoke to you xxoo
Great post, thanks for the reminder Suzie! We all have been there. I also have read the Magic book several times and enjoy the gratitude practices. xx
Lisa yes we all need to reminders Yes the Magic is powerful xxoo